A reunion, a speech night, a centenary, an open day — these moments bring your community together and create a surge of goodwill. Then, for most schools, nothing happens. The goodwill fades, and everyone goes quiet until the next event a year later.

It doesn't need to be that way. Here's a simple sequence that turns a one-off event into lasting engagement. None of it requires special software — it requires deciding the relationship is worth five emails instead of zero.

1.   Within 24 hours — the "you were there" email

Two or three good photos. No ask, no link to anything. Just: we saw you, here's the moment. This is the one that gets forwarded to people who didn't come — and quietly reminds them what they missed.

2.   Day three — the "what's changed" email

One genuinely interesting fact about how the school has changed since they left. "The science wing they fundraised for in 1998 was rebuilt last year." Specific, not promotional. You're reminding them the place is still alive and still theirs.

3.   Day five — the invitation

Now you ask them to join the alumni community. Personalised by year level if you can. Warm, not administrative — write it like you'd write to a person, not a database.

4.   Day seven — the second attempt

Same invitation, to everyone who didn't open day five. New subject line, new first sentence. The second attempt always catches people the first one missed. Always.

5.   Twelve months out — the anniversary note

Schedule it now. Three sentences, arriving on the anniversary of the event. No ask. Just: you're still part of this. It's the email that turns a moment into a relationship.

The point isn't the emails

It's the decision behind them. A school that sends these five is a school that has decided its alumni relationships are worth maintaining — not just celebrating once a year and forgetting.

So, honestly: which of these does your school already send?

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